My Apple Cider Patron

My Apple Cider Patron

By Rebecca van Noppen “Let me pay for that,” the young woman said behind me as I finished packing up my groceries. The cashier was holding up a jug of apple cider that had been forgotten, laying on the conveyor belt in no-man’s-land between groceries paid and those...
It Hurts to Pay Cash

It Hurts to Pay Cash

Financial Gain through Pain “There is no coming to consciousness without pain.” Carl Jung, Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst As the saying goes there is no gain without pain, or as Jung has said, there is no coming to conscious awareness without feeling pain....
Putting an End to the Shame Cycle

Putting an End to the Shame Cycle

By Hope Van Noppen with Amanda Van Noppen “I define shame as the intensely painful feeling or experience of believing that we are flawed and therefore unworthy of love and belonging—something we’ve experienced, done, or failed to do makes us unworthy of connection.”...
Car Shopping Tips

Car Shopping Tips

By Reb van Noppen The Big Blue Whale—a Dodge Ram full size conversion van—was one of Dave’s bucket-list finds at a local auction. It suited his height, his desire for vehicle space, and fit our family of seven just perfectly, along with dogs. It was our home away from...